Sick of being single? Ready to be done with dating?
Listen up fellas, being in therapy is the new being tall.
The way of the world is changing and the people (mainly the ones you’re dating) are demanding emotional intelligence.
You do not have to be an expert on emotions to be successful in dating. You do however need to know that you indeed have feelings and how to control and access them.
Let’s work together on the stuff that is getting in the way of you wanting to be healthily close to a romantic partner.
the bottom line
YOU WANT TO BE APPRECIATED
Maybe you feel smothered when someone tries to get too close… They say you aren’t “emotionally available”. Maybe you struggle with having alone time and want to spend all your time with the person you’re dating and they’re getting overwhelmed… You like them and you don’t want to mess it up.
Are you sick of hearing “I just think it’s funny how…”?
Are you tired of feeling emasculated in your relationship?
unhappy in your relationship?
TRY THERAPY FOR MEN
Aren’t you so excited to have to talk about your feelings with another woman because according to your wife or girlfriend, “You aren’t emotional enough!” What a bunch of BS! You are plenty emotional. You have feelings. You probably felt your eyes roll just reading this! Oh wait, don’t do that, she hates when you do that.
You’re trying to understand her and give her what she wants and every time you think you nailed it, she complains or it isn’t “good enough” cue her ‘I’m not mad, I’m just disappointed’ sigh. You are really trying and it isn’t seen as ‘good enough’. Or maybe she won’t let you in or ask for help.
I have some good news and some bad news. The good news is that you are partially responsible for this pattern occurring. The bad news is that most women don’t know how to interact with men so both partners end up feeling valued. Together we’ll work on how you can interact with women so that you get more of what you want, they get more of what they want, and you actually enjoy being the provider.